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The Hooking Up Culture Isn’t All It Is Cracked Out To Be

Tuesday, April 20, 2010 Some college students are realizing the “hooking up” culture at some schools just isn’t worth it, according to a recent article on CNN.com. “I saw it [hooking up] as a way to be recognized and get satisfaction,” said student Frannie Boyle. “
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How Do I Say “No”?

Thursday, June 11, 2009 I know I want to be abstinent, but what are some good ways to say “no” if someone pressures me? Denise, age 16 Denise, First of all, that’s great that you are committed to abstinence until marriage! There may come a time when someone pressures you; but remem
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Danger Of Pornography?

Saturday, October 25, 2008 I like what you are doing – teaching the youth about abstinence and sexual purity. However, there are a lot of kids out there who might be virgins but who are not sexually pure because of viewing pornography. What advice would you give to such youth. Thanks for your
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She’s Pressuring Me

Thursday, June 26, 2008 This girl in my class wants to have sex with me and I tell her NO!! She keeps on telling me that. She shows signs to me what she wants to do to me. I tell her no, no, no, but she keeps on saying it. What should I do? What can I tell her about sex or what can I tell her? Ambro
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I Think About It All The Time

Saturday, May 10, 2008 I want to have sex and feel like I will go crazy. I think about it all the time. So what do I do? guy, 13 A.C. Green¬†decided to answer this personally, so we’ll step aside for his response! There’s an old saying that says: “As a man thinks, so he is.”
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Being A Leader

Saturday, April 26, 2008 I have a question about to be a good leader. I want to be the best positive leader. But the down is that you will be made fun of if you are tring to be a positive leader. A positive leader in my High school is doing drugs. A postive leader to other kids in my school does dru
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Should I Drop Him?

Saturday, April 12, 2008 Hi, I’m going out with this 23-yr old. He has no job right now, partly due to a unemployment problem in the area, and he has not yet gone to college. Still, he has high hopes for his future. It has become too hard to take our relationship too seriously because he is im
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How Do I Move On?

Wednesday, March 19, 2008 ok, there’s this guy and we had sex and he was acting really mean to me afterwards and tellng everyone that i’m easy to get but i still have feelings for him. it’s like he is always on my mind and after this happened it made me want to become abstinent but
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Don’t Think About Girls…

Thursday, February 7, 2008 I like A.C. and that’s why I signed up. But I’m gay, and Ive known this for a long time. All my friends keep talking about girls, but I never thought about it. I got some girlfriends, but I don’t think about girls and sex. But theres some guys and sometim
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What If She Isn’t A Virgin?

Wednesday, February 6, 2008 I have chosen to remain abstinent until marriage. Should I only marry someone who is also a virgin? Demarcus Demarcus, You should marry a person because of that person’s heart. Regardless of anyone’s past decisions, if your values are the same (they are now pr
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