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Reasons To Wait…

Friday, January 30, 2009 There are so many reasons to choose abstinence until marriage. In fact, a bunch of them are posted right here. Why don’t you pick your favorite one and leave a comment, letting us know why abstinence is YOUR decision.
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Sex Is A Gift

Friday, June 27, 2008 “We had two rules: we would not compromise our commitment to abstinence and we would not stop being best friends. We dated for more than four years before we got married. We are so glad we waited [until marriage]…. Sex is a gift from God to be opened at the right ti
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Taking Charge

Friday, June 20, 2008 “I know that abstinence is so important to me, because I feel that by doing this, I am being responsible and taking charge of my life. It’s a hard decision, but I feel proud for the courage it takes me to keep it, and to know I have that courage. It’s also a p
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Won’t Destroy A Dream

Wednesday, June 11, 2008 “I guess one thing that would keep me from premarital sex is this: I would not want any man to have had sex with the girl I plan to marry; therefore I would not want to destroy another man’s dream by being sexually involved with the girl he will someday marry.”
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Now I Know

Thursday, May 29, 2008 Sex was a game to him he was just looking at me as a fresh piece of meat and then after we had sex he told everyone that i was easy to get to. now i have learned that all sex does at this age is it gives you a broken heart and a bad reputation because no one is going to look b
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Morals And Standards

Wednesday, March 12, 2008 “I am sick and tired of everyone telling me i have to be a certain way and that there is nothing wrong. It seems to me that morals and standards aren’t valued in society anymore. I’m tired of being told that if i don’t do the things that everyone els
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Make It Easy

Sunday, March 9, 2008 “I’ll tell you right now, you can make your life much easier by just controlling the places you go and the people you are with. Make a reputation for yourself… make people know that you are not going to have sex…. I have done that and let me tell you it
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If You Loved Them

Tuesday, February 12, 2008 “If you loved someone, you wouldn’t risk their being hurt through sex.”  
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I Felt Cheated

Saturday, December 15, 2007 I never realized that I felt cheated until my wedding night when we got to our hotel room. As I was getting ready for the most romantic evening of my life, I looked in the mirror and realized that I had already done this. What a letdown. What was there to be excited about
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Ruined

Wednesday, June 27, 2007 “I’m thirteen and I’ve just ruined my life. I thought Mike really loved me, but last night we had sex for the first time and this morning he told my girl friend that he didn’t want to see me any more. I thought giving Mike what he wanted would make hi
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